My profile...

I am Seeking a Man For Dating
Do you drink? Socially
Marital Status Divorced
Profession : Admin Law Enforcement
Smarts : Some college
Do you want children?: Does not want children
Do you do drugs? No
Do you have children? Yes
Do you have a car? Yes
I'm not perfect and I make mistakes, I want more than anything some one to convince me love can last forever. Not looking to change my situation I like it the way it is. It's going to take one hell of a man to make me want to merge worlds. I have 3 children they are the reason I do what I do everyday, they deserve my love, time and attention, being a single working mother there's never enough time, so if you need someone who can be at your beck & call keep looking. I imagine when I find the right man there will be enough time for everyone. Just be honest. Be comfortable with who you are. Be outgoing! Be respectful of yourself and others. Be considerate. Be romantic. Be able to carry-on an intelligent conversation. Be open to the possibility... Have a goal. Have a dream. Have a job. (or at least be looking for one) Have an opinion about something. Have a sense of humor. Be able to laugh at yourself and WITH others. Have a belief system in place--and live by it. Want to be a better person than who you are now. Don't be a continual victim. Take some control over your life. Accept some responsibility! Live so that those who are around you walk away a better person because they have been with you. In a brief conversation; a man asked a woman he was pursuing the Question, 'What kind of man are you looking for?' She sat quietly for a Moment before looking him in the eye and asking, 'Do you really want to know?' Reluctantly, he said, 'Yes.' She began to expound... 'As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can't do for myself. I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man...or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask, 'What can you bring to the table?' The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought and stated, 'I am not referring to money.' I need something more. I need a man who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life. 'He sat back in his chair,folded his arms, and asked her to explain. She said, 'I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man. I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked...'be lievers mixed with unbelievers are a recipe for disaster'. I need a man who is striving for perfection financially because I don't need a financial burden. I am looking for some one who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded. I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy.God made woman to be a helpmate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself. When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, 'You are asking a lot.' She replied, 'I'm worth a lot.'