My Match.com Profile....

Jessicas_Lookin
Oh hell this better be good.... LOL
36-year-old woman
American Fork, Utah, United States
seeking men 35-43 within 50 miles of American Fork, Utah, United States
Relationships: Divorced
Have Kids: Yes, and they live at home (3)
Want Kids: No, but it's ok if my partner has kids
Ethnicity: White/caucasian
Body Type: Curvy
Height: 5'7
Religion Spiritual but not religious
Smoke- No way
Drink- Social Drinker

for fun:
Picnicing, spending time with my kids and family. Shopping, decorating, painting, crafty, scrapbooking. Entertaining, BBQ's, yard work, designing landscaping, curling up on the couch with a good book or watching a movie.
my job:
Paraprofessional in Law Enforcement. I love my job, it makes me aware but it also makes me over protective of my children and loved ones. But I am perfectly fine with that.
my religion:
I was raised in an LDS home, but I just believe that if you are a good person and that you try to be a better person each day. Live a life you can be proud of you'll be just fine.
favorite hot spots:
We have fantastic mountains surrounding us. Provo Canyon, Squaw Peak, Cascade Springs. I would love to travel to tropical islands. But theres also no place like home.
favorite things:
Crime Scene shows, Snapped, first 48, Fox 13 news, Country music, prime rib, summer time, 4 wheeling, nascar, fireworks, a starry night, flannel sheets, waterfalls, perfect weather, great company, fun conversations.
last read:
Reading- My Sisters Keeper. Love short stories like Readers Digest, I dont get a lot of time to just sit and read unless it's my kids reading to me for homework.
About me:
I'm a divorced mom, I have 3 kids 17, 7 and 3 all with my ex husband. I've been divorced for 5 years after a 14 year marriage. I enjoy making friends, I don't believe you can ever have too many. However the reason I am here is to find my someone. I want to be the one he knows he could live without- but he doesn't want to.

I was scrolling through profiles on here- and found- some guys opening line was "this web site makes me want to cut myself" It makes me think of the funny little stick figure gif file where the stick figure pours gas on himself and lights himself on fire! Sigh, and yet somehow we all believe there is a special person out there that will make all of this torture worth it. At least that's how I feel, hope, believe... if I'm wrong don't dash my dreams... just yet.

Yes, I'm curvy, I'm big boned, and I prefer the word thick, but I am comfortable in my own skin and I like who I am inside and out. That self confidence, my curves combined with bedroom eyes, and a melt you smile gives me an edge over those women who hate themselves, have eating disorders and wont have sex with the lights on! I'm also realistic, I've had 3 kids (UDOT's using my stretchmarks as a guide for the I 15 Core project lol), I have some genetics against me and I like good not so healthy for you food.

I am lucky enough to have been the ugly duckling- so even though I know I'm pretty now, I have to look in a mirror to be reminded - and I still blush when given a compliment. It's something you can never hear enough. I am active and I am working on getting in better shape- however, I'll always be curvy.

My big fat greek er I mean mormon family is very important to me- all 117 of them! I was raised with deep rooted traditions and want that for my children. My siblings are a fantastic group of people to hang out with!

If it starts as friends and becomes more, or if we are lucky enough to find that elusive love at first sight, I want to share my life with someone! I have been patiently waiting, watching and hoping to find my prince. I enjoy a mans company, I love having a family, I want someone to grow old with. I am happy, love my life, my children. I want a man who is secure, who knows what he wants in life.

Be a good person, have goals, have a job, have a belief system and live by it. Know who you are and what you want. Treat people the way you want to be treated. Have a life list, be willing to share it- and work towards checking each item off that list with someone you love! I spent too much time in a marriage that had grown cold. I need that FIRE, passion, desire.

Email me and say HI, send a wink- it's not a marriage proposal!! I'm pretty sure they don't make an automatic withdrawal from your bank account every time that you say hello to a person- unless you use that copy paste- and they should charge you double. If you cant be creative enough to say something different to each woman who catches your eye best log off and work on that. Use your manners- make the conversation count- be able to talk about more than the weather or sex.

I want a man who has experienced enough of the rest to know- when he's found the one... he should hold on to... ME.