Tuesday, April 16, 2013

Funny... Written in 2011- not posted until I updated again April 2013.

What can I say, I'm a lazy blogger!!

When dating- if the man finds out you have a dating blog- they do everything in their power to stay off of it, or they instantly make it. Interestingly enough- once upon a time- as any good fairytale starts-

So four weeks and 4 days ago.. I went on a first date with a man from POF we'd been talking, emailing, texting. It was one of the best first dates ever. So good infact he deleted his POF account that night.. it might of been the next night.

The following days I got to see him more than I've wanted to see anyone in the past 6 years. Our 2nd date we went to Texas Road House, a movie and a drive- ended up in a snow ball fight. On 03/01/2011 I deleted my POF account, 29 seconds later I deleted my match.com account.

On Thursday 03/03/2011 I for the first time ever- changed my relationship status on facebook. Not sure if it was the right timing- since he was on percocet from his surgery that day- and while he changed his status- he updated his to married- If that doesnt make it official- possibly serious.. I dont know what does!

On Friday March 11, 2011 by accident I deleted our 2500 text messages by accident... I was way disappointed I did that. Dang, I could kick myself!

When I woke up from my surgery a week ago today- he was there! I've met his parents- Tuesday night he met my children they adore him!

So my dear John, you've made my blog- not for the same reason as the rest of these jackwagons- but for all the right reasons. Thank you for showing me how it feels to get beyond twitterpated... beyond crush, beyond the "like" stage. Thank you for the things you do that make me feel like a million bucks. Thank you for the shirt I wear to bed- because it smells like you, thank you for the laughs, the smiles, the hugs, the good morning beautiful texts- THAT ARE ONLY SENT TO ME... Thank you for embracing my family- they'll continue to give you shit- but it's all in good fun.. Thank you for being a romantic... for being there, for being you!

Yes, I realize it's early- it's been 4 weeks and 4 days- but in that short time- we've covered more ground than guys I dated for months.


So I had started this post and never published it.  It didnt end up working out between us, and I'm not sure why.  But John is a good man and a good friend.  It didn't work out for us, but dating him has shown me there are still GOOD guys out there.  You just have to find them.

Sincerely
Jessica

1 comment:

  1. aw Jessica! I haven't got to meet him yet and now I totally want to. Hey you could double with my mom. I'm happy for you, you deserve to be happy.
    love always
    ~Erica

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